dejavu2,

I'm no expert here but just catching up re: some of the posts.
From what I have read b 4, you may need to post in Newcomers I think you would get a better more informative response there!
Please try there - you may come across Cadet's post to newbies with sugggested links as well.
Keep posting, someone will get 2 you. smile
Take care & keep strong, p.

ps: in the meantime, take a look if you wish -
re Kansha's NEW DBERS!! dealing with MLC: Some things that help > http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=66009#Post66009

job also has a post on Detachment (this forum as well > http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...;gonew=1#UNREAD )

Last edited by pbetra; 03/09/15 11:35 PM.

pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017