I'm no expert here but just catching up re: some of the posts. From what I have read b 4, you may need to post in Newcomers I think you would get a better more informative response there! Please try there - you may come across Cadet's post to newbies with sugggested links as well. Keep posting, someone will get 2 you. Take care & keep strong, p.
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017