let H stay over night to see kids?

[stargzr]

Been reading the forums about 2 month now.
My first post

Husband moved out a month ago.
He moved about 40 miles away.
He occasionally is in our neighborhood for extra curricular activites and asks to come by to see the children.
If it is late, he will ask to spend the night on the couch.

can you tell me how you handled this with your separated spouse? Did you let him stay over? How do you handle him asking to spend time with the kids in the family home.
At the moment, we are alternating weekends with the kids. (he picks them up and takes them to his moms where he is staying)

thanks for reading and any comments.