V, I am so glad to hear that you have done what you have done. I was worried that living together was causing you damage, and it is a good thing that you have sought support and brought things to a head.

It was very brave of you to tell H that it is your choice to live a life free from abuse. It can't have been easy to do, but you have done it. And your H has some serious thinking to do now.

I hope you rest easy in your flat in Brighton and that tomorrow holds brighter things for you. You are a bright light on these boards V - kind and wise - and you deserve the very best things in your life.

Take care x

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus