Job, thank you! I am absolutely fine. Surgeon signed me off and is very pleased. He is an amazing man.
I have had more continuous contact with xh in the last 10 weeks than in the previous 9 years!! Still crazy but glimmers of normality. The most interesting revelation was that he told me that his brother and sisters told him they think he is autistic! Up until now he has insisted that they think all is well and he was right to leave yada yada.
Previously it would be a week or two max of contact, and then months away (sometimes years)
