More texts

H: I am sorry you feel that way. I don't know what I have done to make you feel that way.

V: you know well enough
H: thanks, that really helps. please list what I have done or said to you. Nothing you are making it up.


After discussion with mentor:

V:
1. Your apple juice rant
2. I am very racist stance with aggression
3. The wrong bacon tantrum
4. Your father should smother your mother
5. You are fat and unattractive
6. I don't do illness
7. I keep telling you that you are xxxxx
8. You didn't throw the old bread away and disgusted with you (this morning)
9. You deliberately did x to annoy me ( including putting dirty dishes in the dishwasher!)
10. You are crap at business, xxxxx and yyyyy
11. I am embarrassed by you/ by x or y you did
12. Don't confuse me with someone who gives a damn
13. Criticising and belittling me in company, shops, garages and xxxxxx store
14. Swearing at me in public and private
15. Invalidating my feelings, no you have no right to feel x or y
16. Leaving coats in the wet which have accidentally fallen
17. Sulking, throwing tantrums if pubs don't have your favourite beer and insisting we leave
18. Swearing at bar maids and waitresses on x and y occasion
19. Chasing and cutting up other drivers on the road even when very dangerous
20. Leaving me alone on the first new year of our married life
21. Going to the pub most nights
22. Being unavailable at weekends for going away because you want to play golf every Sunday
23. Belittling my sexual needs and wants

Enclosed are several texts on these lines and three MP3 recordings

Then long gap

H:I realise there may be a few issues. Sorry I have not sorted these out

V: everyone has issues. Your choice whether to manage them or not. I will live a life free of abuse. That is my choice. I hold myself accountable for me.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 03/09/15 08:36 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW