You are right as so many people have pointed out. It's not about winning the wife back, it's making a better life for me and my kids. I totally get that and respect the process.
I will admit to being hard headed but by God I am fierce and determined. I will come out of this a better woman and mother.
What bothers me the most are the lies on top of lies on ltop lof lies that she has told me, our friends, her family our kids, everyone. That one is hard to swallow even though she is in crisis herself. I honestly do believe she is in crisis even though no one else believes me. However, I have learned that is non of my concern. My concern is me and my kids. She has to sort her own self out.
