I have to admit I'm curios as to what the wife is up to. Haven't talked to her in about a week(normal). All of a sudden last night she starts up a convo via text. Then at exchange is was a little different also (in a good way). Like she was looking for ways to spend time together.
In the text convo she mentioned that she was really looking to have a week off of school. So she can get energy and get in a emotional great state of mind for the hard tasks coming up that she has to do. This could be a number of things, house gets transferd in less then a month(still no plans on a place to live for her and the kids), moving, OM comes back I think next week, or she could have made up her mind on what she wants to do.
If she was telling the truth last week (big if), she plans on ending it with him and wants to start working on our marriage. Who knows? I for sure don't. Did the fog really lift? All signs point to yes.
But here is a great silly question. What if she does really want to work on us. And we try. But I don't like this new person she is. What if she has changed so much, I don't like her anymore. Just a little scared I guess. I always see on here to imagine an awesome future together. Tricky.
But that's if all the signs are right!
Big week finally going to clear out all my stuff from the old house. Very excited for that. And to get closure on that part of my life.
Thanks as always 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced