Had parent teacher conference with both kids. WAW wife was there. We said hello and talked only about children and were civil. I focuses on being in the moment and really listening to what the teachers said.
She asked if I wanted to walk with her to get some snacks from the convenience store down the street. I calmly said "No thanks".
My D6's teacher said she was having trouble being social with her classmates. My WAW wants to take her to a child psychologist as she had a list of referrals. I calmly said I would like to look at the list before making any decisions."
I had no expectations.
Upon leaving we were walking up a hill and she had to stop and catch her breath. "I said are you OK?" and she replied "Just a bad cold and my asthma". I replied "I'm sorry to hear that". I waited for her to catch up and then I got into my car and left.
Interaction was strictly neutral.
Yesterday the kids and I went to the beach and played and had ice cream and watched movies. We had a very fun day. Saturday my s9 had a friend over and played Minecraft for forever and the kid ended up spending the night. My son was very happy.
