Just like you don't have to respond to your wife's text messages (think lost tooth incident) she doesn't have to jump to yours either. And you called 3x in a 20 min span? And there wasn't an emergency? I would be irritated about that.

A parenting plan would prevent this situation and you are not going to like this but again, you can't see the kids everyday.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction