Most of the time, we seem to be doing just fine; we get along well, are affectionate and enjoy each other's company. Then some days, things get all intense and uncomfortable and feel like they are falling apart, and I just don't know what to think. Is this up & down fairly common at this point?
I think it's common at any point. It's a relationship with another person, separate from you. It will sometimes be tense and uncomfortable.
How do you handle those feelings?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss