Hi Wonka, I just this minute copied sandi's thread (minus the other chat) to a doc I can reference when I want to.

I've been wondering what the DB coaches would say to it. It's powerful stuff.

I've been talking about setting a boundary that says no mention, or texting etc of or to OM in my or the kids presence. This can now include nothing related to him either. I wasn't sure to say I found it though as it's proof I went looking for it and she doesn't know I have done that.

I knew there'd be something somewhere: she's not very good at covering her tracks although she has changed a lot of passwords recently. All using her old Spanish nickname that he referred to and she never ever mentioned to me in 21 years.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner