OD,

If I were you, I'd dig out the brown evenlope and wait for W to come home to have the "no-OM" boundary talk with her.

If you read Sandi's new thread about new LBHs, I think it is time to ante the poker chips by being firm and decisive.

We will be happy to lend you support and guidance through this when you are ready to pull the "no-OM boundary" trigger.