I enjoy your sprinklings of wisdom and humor across the board. You seem wise.
Now, I would like to address some concerns expressed by others regarding your H's behaviors. It is concerning and rightfully so. You mentioned that you have some properties. Would it be possible for you to move out and get your own place? I think you owe it to yourself this and preserve your self-worth.
I really don't care for H. I only care about you and your wellbeing.
As long as you are in their physical presence, abusers will just keep on abusing you. Removing yourelf from them is the biggest indicator that you are not "okay" with the chit and shows them that they have no power over you.
