WWB:
You know, the porn thing is interesting. I've caught myself lingering on swimsuit ads where the woman looks like my W. Trust me...it's very complimentary eventhough you might not be able to live up to the image. I personally fantasize about W taking the steps to look and/or act a little bit like the models. I actually think it would be a turn on to see her acting out a fantasy, even if it was with someone else (as long as she took care of me soon after). I don't know how you turn it around because already, you are HD.