During an intense discussion about our finances, I was informed that he enjoys downloading pictures that remind him of me from the internet. By the way, these are porn sites. He left one out does look like a slighty younger version of me. So how this is suppose to make me feel better? I guess I am too stupid to see that he payed me a compliment by jacking off to some photo look alike. Yeah sure. Could you guys please tell me why it is so hard to say thank you to your wife? I pulled money out of my retirement fund, paid a heavy penalty and used to help keep us afloat and he said I didn't have a thank you coming because it is something I should be doing and you don't get thanked for what you should be doing. Yet, one of the things that he is mad about is that I don't appreciate all that he does around the house and that I say thank you so much it don't mean anything to him. Now, my problem is that I am confused. If he likes to be appreciated for what he does why can't I like to be appreciated for what I do? Do anyone know what I mean? I hurt so bad today. It's a good thing tha t you can't drown in your tears no matter how it feels.
