Hi Vanillia. You have fantastic support from all on here and it seems we are all singing from the same hymn sheet , this has to stop Toots has brought up the living together issue. How does Vanillia feel about Herself or H moving ?
Just my twopence worth re your H. It seems he doesn't grasp that the two of you are separated, he seems to be living his own life but wants Vanillia there to help and to blame when things don't go his way. My L/C is very big on having the right minded people around you or else you can get dragged into their moods , their mindsets and just bring you back to negativity. Vanillia you are so wise but I think you are to close to the situation to see that you need space from H asap.
