She is openly, publicly rubbing your nose in her A. She has already said you should be fine with her pursuing a PA. She spends 13 hrs with OM, comes home smilingbear to ear, pats H on the head, and she's off to fantasy world again.

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She arrived with the car-- and the OM was right there in the passenger seat. They both got out and I leapt into the driver's seat and peeled out, willfully ignoring the OM's attempt to say hello (If you can't say anything nice..


Unbelievable! She was more concerned about OM being upset at your rudeness? Wow!

I think she will get more brazen. This type of WW is a level worse, JMHO, b/c she doesn't even care enough about her H's reputation and humiliation to be, at the least, discrete. Instead, she brings OM home with her, flings him in the face of her H........and expects her H to act all friendly with her AP? Affairs are wrong, period, no matter how secretive or public. Just saying.............this calls for some stiff boundaries, b/c she believes (and trying to get you to see) that you should be fine with an open M.

Read the book ASAP.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!