Thanks for the reassurance. I got the book you recommended in and am starting to read it.
I don't know what 'not' to do about W. I understand she is wayward and continues to lie to everyone. Found out today that BFF2, whom is a very passive person and idolizes W just snapped at her and set a boundary for W, although W didn't seem to respect it. If BFF2 has hit her limit, things are bad.
I actually think she's convinced herself her lies are reality. I can't control that, my issue is because of her thinking her lies are true, no boundaries seem to be able to be set. I'm beginning to think there's actually something really wrong with her mindset right now. I'm scared about her with the kids right now. She seems to be crashing and I don't know what rock bottom will look like. I'm going on travel this week and she has the kids. I'm afraid of her emotional state because it seems to be all over the map. However, it doesn't seem like there's anything I can do about it. I need to have faith that He is looking out for the little ones. This has gotten to a point that is not good at all.
Like I said, I think I'm going to have to shut down all communication with her. It's what she has wanted since the beginning. Now that she's thrown these fallacies on the table, even though they are just that I need to protect myself. I wished it hadn't come to this.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
