Thank you Sandi for your response, you make complete sense.
Today she called asking if I wanted some potatoes. I told her no, but she stopped by the house anyway and dropped off a bag. She ended up hanging out for 20 minutes or so (people were over) and then asked if we could talk outside. Our conversation hovered around our son and his current problems at school. I gave her a hug (first one in a LONG time), then she left.
She has said over and over that we are done, that we will not get back together, it's almost like she is convincing herself that this is the case, like she has to hear it. I just keep smiling though, doing the 180 and show her that my life will continue without her.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
