Quote hairdog: This one really pisses me off. ...I will finally give her a mind blowing orgasam. Then her response is to roll over onto her back, spread her legs, and say, "OK, Let's take care of you".
hd, This is exactly the routine that my ML has taken for the last 24 years. The routine started I think, the second time I went down on her. She said (while very turned on) "Don't stop, don't ever stop". Those words made a big impression on me because I felt that I was showing her all the love I possibly could and I really enjoyed it as I do to this day however... once a man has had his orgasm his interest in further sex plummets. Now I don't know if the same is true for women but I suspect that it is. After my W has seen stars she allows me my turn but she just lies there waiting for it to finish (sometimes with her hands covering her face). The first ML as the post SSM "new me" I decided to break the 24 year routine and warm her up by about a third then surprise her by getting stuck in then finish her after me. Well I have to say it was a big success. She even touched my arms during my turn and there was no problem finishing her turn. It was the best we had had for years. The second time it didn't work quite as well because Woody didn't want to put his bathing cap on (it was inside out) and in all the fiddling around he decided to go soft on me. He did his best but after a while it was obvious that his mind was elsewhere and we moved on to phase three but W stopped me after a while and we had to record it as a no-score draw. Hopefully next time will be OK. But hd, the point of this story is that if you let her come first then surely her interest in your pleasure will be reduced to "Hurry up so I can go to sleep".
