Now before I get blasted for everything I just wrote and said, I understand I need to work on myself. The problem is I don't know how. All of my friends are married so I would just be a third wheel. Secondly being married at 19, I have never been to a bar or anything like that and have no interest in going to one.
You said all of that to her?
Why are you talking about going to a bar? Nobody is trying to get you to go to some bar. Is that what you think we mean by GAL? If so, then you did not read what I put in the 37 rules about going to bars. Hum?
Look, it's up to you. We have no control over what you decide to do. It's your life to make better or scr@w up. A lot of men have sit where you are tonight, feeling anger, frustration, fear, loneliness, dread, and hopelessness. Many were not able to bust the D, but they came through that he11 a better, and often, a happier man. May be hard to picture for yourself at the moment, but it is very possible for you. You can learn.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
