Hi Vanillia. As I have stated time and time again. I am no vet but please please don't accept this behaviour from your H. Vanillia needs to get this sorted. You cannot live under those conditions. If your H no longer wants M than that's his right but after that NO ONE can talk like that to Vanillia. You deserve so much more and definitely more than the version of your H that's there now. All the GAL in the world won't get you past that horrible , childish , vindictive spew.
Vanillia Do what's right for you obviously but I hope you take a step back and see the whole picture. Your H has no control over his verbal attacks and Vanillia must take control
I hope you accept all I say is with the upmost concern for my friend and supporter Vanillia from your friend and supporter, Rd
I am so angry and upset for you. Hugs and a shoulder to lean, cry and to bump your H out of your way (LOL). Take care of Vanillia , she is very special to us all xx