Thanks Jb and Edz, I have had a lovely weekend.

Yes, until H came home.

Then it started again,

V: did you have a good time?

H: I can see you haven't cleaned out the fridge. I think there is stale bread in there.

V: yes I have cleared the fridge (which I have)
H: it is (expletive) dirty and there is none of my milk
H: you have not done all the ironing
V: I worked this weekend
H: abuse, abuse, spew, abuse
V: STFU and went GAL

Rang my Gamanon mentor from the car as was in bits again

Time says mentor to restate your boundary V and we discussed the text.

So text: V to H: I think, believe and feel that I am being verbally and emotional abused. I want this to stop as it is serious abuse that I am being subject to. This must cease immediately or action will be taken.

H to V: LOL!

WTF? My mentor is outraged at this. Next time the abuse starts she says she will come over and support me whilst I get this on the record.

I have recordings and will need more recent ones.

Possibly I have just ceased to be shocked by it.

Anyway I went to Ceroc and had a great time. I will not let this H spoil my composure and lovely weekend.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW