For Newcomer LBH with a Wayward Wife

[Joe46]

Thanks Sandi. I wasn't meaning to complicate the situation and I wasn't really denying what was going on. I just wanted to be sure I was handling it correctly. There are other feelings involved in this besides mine. If we did not have all these kids together, I would sit down and tell her to make your choice right now. Stop the job and work on our marriage or keep the job and pack up your things. And if things don't change sometime soon, it may come to that. First I am trying to separate myself from everything going on except the kids. And once my truck is fixed, it will be alot easier to GAL. Older daughter is coming to visit for a couple days. She is good at asking questions and also telling it like it is. Wife will make up some story about having her own room. It would be sad, but a huge dose of reality for daughter to over hear her work. She would say something for sure.