For Newcomer LBH with a Wayward Wife

[Kramer]

Excellent post. Describes my wife to a tee. As I mentioned in my posts, she has left me and everybody else in her life and is continuing full steam ahead with her affair. She has moved into her own place and filed divorce. She has not had any contact with my children and grandchildren since I disconered her affair on New Years eve and confronted her. After doing the begging and pleading early on, I have now gone dark and limit my communication with her to texts or emails tegRding legal issues. We don't have children together, but I raised her children as if they were my own for 17 years. Only the youngest wants anything to do with her. The rest have distanced themselves from her because of her selfish actions.

I've actually spent the last 2 days cleaning our house after she and her youngest left. They left a huge mess and she left behind all of the pictures, clothes, and memories that we accumulated over the years. Very sad. I am actually getting dinner ready now for 3 of her children. They are all adults but we still do things together.

I will adhere to the advice that sandy2 espouses, but am doubtful that she will return. Her boyfriend has money, nice house, and drives a Maserati. I can't comptete with that. I think she sees a sugar daddy and doesn't have to deal with the drama in our lives this way.