Continuing DBing

[PeterV2]

Yeah Toots, both times that I reached out to other women was when I got to the point of no return where I said to myself I'm done with her - time for D. But both times W had afterwards shown some sign of hope that we can piece it back together. Of course by that time the horse was out of the barn.

Twinmom, it could be that she had a double send address in her phone since she often sent both of us info on her mom who's staying at our RH. But yeah it seems odd. I don't even know the content of the TM that was sent. I could ask her. Or I could ask my W. Actually I did ask my W and she wouldn't say.

Now my W wants to boot the lady's mom out of the RH. I told her don't do that. We're short enough of residents and can't pay the bills.

I'll say to W: I truly love our daughter & fiancé like they're my own flesh and blood, and it is important to me that their wedding day is great, but I want more to make sure that their whole marriage is great and enduring. I want to teach by example, that when a married couple have problems that they don't just give up but roll up their sleeves and do the hard work to fix the marriage. To get to the point beyond seeing and reacting to each others difference to appreciating and celebrating each other's difference. To be able to grow and improve with each passing year. To deepen the love, even when there may be times when the love seems to have vanished, like a river gone underground only to reappear further downstream, clean and pure.