Hairdog:

This one really pisses me off. I will work at foreplay on the wife for about an hour, to gradually awaken her body to the idea of sex. I will rub her everywhere, then use my mouth on every part of her body. I will finally give her a mind blowing orgasam. Then her response is to roll over onto her back, spread her legs, and say, "OK, Let's take care of you". Talk about only SERVICING me, it makes me feel so UNDESIRED. It's like I am a CHORE. And this after she was given GREAT foreplay. And of course, the only thing I get is straight sex. No foreplay, no variation, just straight sex. As little effort as possible is given by the LD.

LD's never seem to get it, it's not the sex that is the problem, it's their DESIRE that is the problem.