Hi Peter, sorry to hear what happened? To save me looking back, was it you that also got into difficulties with the dating site following a New Year when your W was with OM?

It sounds as though you were bordering into dangerous territory again with your 'friend' and this tendency to reach out to other women when things are tough in your sitch has caused problems again. Just an observation and something to think about maybe...

As for the vacation, I'm afraid I don't know. Does your W still want to go? Even if she doesn't, I would go and have a nice solo holiday...


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus