Alpha and WAW - part 2

[Sotto]

Hi Alpha, looking for a rough average isn't going to help you know. Every sitch is different - but I would say this. If you expect nothing in the short to medium term and realise you need to live your own life, that will be the best plan.

My H has been involved with OW for over a year now, and we have been S for 8 months. He hardly initiates contact and I occasionally initiate it. In general, whilst A's don't tend to become successful M's, they don't fizzle out overnight either, and it is by far best to detach yourself from the situation..

Sounds good with the GALing :-)