Well, just came off the phone with our mutual friend and it does sound as though OW may be still somewhere in the picture. Of course I didn't ask, but MF told me that H flew out to visit OW just a few weeks ago. She also said that he has been dating when he is away at work too. So it sounds as though things with OW aren't completely panning out and may not be completely over either.

I'm really glad to know this, because I must admit I was feeling a bit conflicted, as you know from earlier posts. As he had emailed me to say he had been stupid and lost sight of what was important etc, I thought things might be well and truly over with OW. But he must have been emailing me at around the time he was going out there. Although it could have been after he came back - IDK - and best not to wonder!

Anyway, good to know all of this and it resolves any concerns I may have had about forging ahead in a business like way.

Funny that MF innocently said H seems to be 'looking for something or someone to make him feel better and isn't finding that.' (Ooh - cheeseless tunnel, I thought to myself!)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus