Total blow out this morning. Back when W was in Cancun and I found that she had called OM on Jan 5 I was at a point where I said to myself I'm done with her, I had confided all my troubles to a daughter of one of the RH residents who was staying with her mom at the RH. She is a happily married woman (25yrs) and I basically told her the whole story and she gave me some good perspective from a woman's point of view. She held me and kissed me which at the time was very comforting and I thanked her for that. But I had no intention to develop an EA.
Last night she sent me a text telling me to have a good show - our rock band played last night. When I got back from the show at 4am I check my text messages and found hers, so I replied saying we rocked the place. Well she replied apparently but sent her reply to my W by mistake.
W confronted me this morning about this text - she wouldn't tell me what it said. She basically accused me of having an A. I told her about that week and finding her call to OM and having decided at that time that our M is over and admitted to confiding in this other woman about our whole sitch. W accused me of lying, cheating and stringing her along. I told her that she is just projecting. That didn't go over to well.
She told me to move out. I told her I'm not going anywhere. And I told her I just want to salvage this M.
We're leaving on vacation tomorrow. How can I save the sitch to at least have a nice vacation?
Last edited by PeterV2; 03/08/1504:12 PM.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
