Thanks everyone.

I'm still here...just been a little different/off/down lately.

My little fur baby is hanging in there. She has been sleeping probably 18-20 hours a day. She's just so old...I may have to put her to sleep soon. She has a little tumor under her arm. I've been watching it closely. I DO NOT want to have to do this...

Been witnessing S22 argue with XW for the past 2 weeks (yes 2 weeks) over the OM. She keeps telling him to "take it like a man", "accept it", "it's time", "you don't have to be his buddy...just meet him", "shake his hand", blah blah blah. I have four sons. The youngest and oldest were "forced" (their words) to meet him. The two middle ones have not. It is really starting to bug her I think. None of this turned out the way she had planned.

I joined a dating site last week. I've had quite a few nibbles, but nothing that I'm really interested in.

As mentioned, been somewhat blue lately. Can't seem to shake it. Thanks for your concern.

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13