Hi Toots, sorry to hear you're feeling a bit sad today. I know it's a really tough thing to have to think about when it's not what we want at all. Try to keep your spirits up though and get some rest if you're feeling tired.
You're posts always help me, I find you such a calming influence. I wish you all the best Toots.
Barry
Me 40 W 38 T 23 M 21 S21 S19 D16 S14 BD 19/12/2014 D mentioned 27/2/2015. I filed 08/04/2015, D Absolute 04/11/2015
Hi Toots, Sorry you're down. It must be strange and a little disconcerting to have NC for so long and then have H pop up with such big news. It's a lot to take in, and selling the house is a big thing. I hope you find a way to get your cat, you must miss her. I'm sorry the thought's been keeping you up at night. Hope you can find a way to get her to your flat.
Take care of yourself today.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
As per others sorry you're feeling a little blue. I can certainly relate this week. Feels like one minute you feel happy and excited for the contact then the next right down in the dumps or preoccupied about the what's why's and wherefores. Last week has been a revisit to the rollercoaster forgot how much it wasn't fun!
Hang in there toots, remember that at its core dB is do what works for you and your sitch and make the decisions that will make you the happiest and keep at doors open you want to keep open. Try to relax and enjoy those aqua aerobics and your other activities. As I've been telling myself this week, this too will pass
Edz
Last edited by edz; 03/08/1512:13 PM.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Hi toots. Just a thought about you stealing away in the night. Whenever I read you signature , I feel you leaving when you found out about OW was very brave and incredibly strong. I would not mess with Toots. Just passing on my thoughts. Chin up toots you will be very happy again. If things don't go as you wish with H , some guy is going to have a fantastic partner in life and Im already envious of him !!!!!!
Thanks for stopping by guys. And RD, an extra thank you to you - that was such a lovely post and I was very touched...the feeling is entirely mutual, I assure you!
Well, I hope you'll all join me on my new thread - Toot Va Bien - as I think this one may be about to close.....xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
