OD

Yes, it feels scarey to start with and after a few times relief. W will push back so you will need to be strong.

Practice with other people on issues which are important and not vital. The rude lady in the supermarket, the co worker who dumps his work, the salesman who will not take no.

Rehearse, here if you want to or with your flat mate 12 steppers. OD where W sleeps is her problem to resolve, she has made a choice to do what she does., so W takes the consequences of that choice. In the attic if she chooses or the back lawn. OD is there so W vacates the marital bed as she has lost that right because of her A. If you decide so and enforce your boundary.

It will change your life

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 03/08/15 08:59 AM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW