Karma, what a relief! I really hope he's good on his word. Keep us updated. Also wonderful he's not standing in the way ov you taking SD to Mexico. Its probably in his own interest as he isnt very focussed on her anyway. But its win win for all. Im sure she'll love being with you and getting some real attention. Hope your new bf gets well soon, his health is not sounding so good, maybe he coukd visit his gp? Im thinking about a new thread but im not sure as i dont want it to be negative/rant. And though i really look forward to living my life w/o his looney behaviour, there's a lot that pops up that makes me upset. Like now he's refusing to pay the €40,- child support per kid per month. Imean he will be paying half of daycare since he'sofficially going to co parent, but this€40,- pkpm is a legal obligation based on him earning more then me. I just dont get how someone can be such an *** about his own kids. Its not like its hundreds of euro's. Pfff...
Me: 36 Him: 36 DD: 3y DD2: 1.5mo Together: 5y Married: > 3y D: April 1st '15 after 1y of affairs