T47, D36, Whatever you do keep it simple. Any list you present to W should not have more than 1 item. More than that dilutes the message and gives them something else to negotiate over. I think what I actually said to her was. "Lets do it every Friday night for a couple of months as a trial. What harm can it possibly do?" and to my amazement she agreed. But really what else could she say because it can't do her any harm. SD
