Old dog seeks new trick 10

[gan]

Old Dog, boundaries are there to stop you feeling like sh*t. Right now you are feeling like sh*t because your W is stepping over the line. So what would need to change for that to not to be the case? She's not going to give up OM (yet) but you can insist that she not rub it in your face, for example. You can insist that she not sleep in the same bed as you.