"I try and fail to keep myself from thinking about all the new experiences and memories they are and have been and will be sharing and building together."
Actually, it may be no bad thing for your sitch that they are spending so much time together. The more time they spend together, the more time there is to get to know the 'real' person. This is dangerous in A's, which thrive on 'fantasy' - so to be with someone when they are being bugged by their mother, or chewing their food noisily etc. is no bad thing.
In the meantime, do use the gift of time that these absences give you. Don't make that time about worrying over your W and what memories may be being built, make it all about you and building new habits and memories in your own life.....
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
