Old dog seeks new trick 10

[Maybell]

I can't say don't see him as she'll just repeat her it's over mantras. As far as she is concerned she has ended it, has moved on and started another R, and now it's up to me to get over it.

Umm.... would the state say "it's over" ????

She's married. She can parse it however she wants but there it is. Until she ACTUALLY ends the marriage, it's not over.

SO.

Do you like how she's treating you?

What are you able to change?

I totally disagree with her that she's keeping the boys' best interests at heart. Is this what she'd like for them to endure as adults? Is this what you'd want for them?

What can YOU do to mitigate the way she's treating you? How can you protect yourself from all this?