RPP: Best Year Ever (18)

[Zues126]

I think 10% just means he has doubts, regrets, etc.

I'd assume all WAS's wish it could be different. They wish the consequences weren't so devastating. They wish they had the marriage they originally thought they were going to have. The wish they didn't have to give up on their dreams. They wish they didn't have to be hurt and hurt others. So they have regrets. And they still have feelings for the LBS so they can truthfully say there is "part of them" that isn't sure.

But I don't see it that way. I look at actions, not words. Someone is either 100% in and they are resolved to stay in their M and work on it, and they become 100% out when they leave. Everyone has emotions. It's actions that count. My dad's favorite saying is "The road to hell is paved with good intention"...