Well, today is an antiversary for me. It was a year ago this evening that I found out my H had been emailing OW, and that she had stayed the night at our city flat. OH broke things off straight away, but then an on/off/on PA started 2 weeks later, which I didn't know about until last July.

H and I have been in touch quite a bit today about logistics for this & that. I think his tone is a bit less warm than of late - maybe because I stood my ground about the legal process. Still, he's going along with what I proposed, so that's okay.

He just emailed me to say he thinks he as found a home for our rabbit - at the petting corner of a local open farm. I think that will be a very nice option for her. I have no idea where our sitch is going. Nowhere very positive it seems, although it will be good to have more financial security etc. I'm trying to remain hopeful for 'us' in the longer term...


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus