Rysinmans climb after WAW!

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Sounds like you are doing good progress Rysin. Good to hear you feel better.
You don't take any meds do you? Do you have IC?

Legal separation is such a confusing thing to me still. It's like a trial D, or just a painful way to make things more amicable for WAW. On the other hand it's better than D. So I don't know if I should see it positive or not. It's probably moving in that direction in my sitch too. It pretty much feels like D for me tho.
W much also use it to be free and start dating again.

Just get informed and a L, but don't initiate anything. Don't help her. But also try not to be passive aggressive in the process. And like toots said its pretty early in your sitch still. It takes a lot of energy from WAW to start a legal process.