I wish you all the best luck and endurance with the upcoming process!! Stay strong and I hope things won't be too rough, but I think you got this and in the end it'll turn out well for you either way.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15