What I hate about limbo is feeling like I have no control (yes, back to my desire for control) and no choice. Knowing that I'm not happy with an aspect of my life (like my job) but am unable to change it. Maybe this is the universe's way of forcing me to become more comfortable with limbo, and lack of control. Well played, universe, well played. But not very nice. wink
I know I have choices, I do. But man, none of them have good consequences.
I don't buy any of this. You do have control. You have complete control over what you do next.
If you don't like your job, start looking for a new one. If that takes a skills upgrade, then get on it. You want control? Then start controlling how you feel about yourself. Nobody is forcing you to stay in limbo. You are only in limbo so long as you let others, or yourself, hold you back.
I urge you, do not wander into the "woe is me, I'm a victim of the universe" territory. I've watched my WAW in there for over a year now and it is no way to look at life.
If all of this misery we experience can teach us anything, it is this: We are each responsible for ourselves - our happiness, our comfort, our morals, our ability to be at peace with ourselves. We each own and control that. If you want something, go for it, in a way that you can live with. Don't wait for someone else to ask if you need something. If you're heading in the wrong direction, change course.
The decision to be in limbo is completely yours. Figure out where you want to be and take the first step. You will quickly find that any progress in the right direction can be very inspiring.
