The biggest admonition of guilt I got from her through this entire process is that was that she was "a bit reckless"
Either way, I'm long over playing her games. She still does the selective communication with texts, the push pull. I just keep it business like around the care of S9 and move on with my life.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015