I'm in the UK, and collaborative law is where you each have a collaborative law solicitor and meet (together with the solicitors) to work things out. In our case (given current distance) we may not actually meet, but can still work with a collaborative ethos hopefully.
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus