WED PM: Got return call from Therapist. Told her that I worked through the issues (a few posts back) which really centered around the "frequency" issue. We talked briefly and she said that the worst thing you can do is "revise the target". This was something I had thought of because I made this mistake once already. Last month I said "every 10 days" but my emotional needs were much less because of where we were in the "reconnection" of our relationship. But since we started being more "together" my needs increased significantly and I also wanted to come up with an "ideal" that I could live with indefinitely. That's why I established 2 times a week as an ideal minimum but also told W that I understand that it might take her time to work up to that. It's almost 80% in her court now. I'm chillin' and giving her some space. I'll keep posting.
