Survived the rollercoster by getting off it

[Karma12]

Hi STBX ,

As today is March 1,2015 I am writing you to ask about our separation agreement. We signed an agreement that stated you would buy me out of our house. I would sign the house over to you and within 3 yrs or by July 1,2015 you would pay me out $75,000.

As you are aware it was my life that was turned upside down when we separated . I left the home I loved and had to buy a new home. I left you with almost everything in the house and had to start from scratch. I used the very last of my Dads money to buy my furniture and secure my condo.

While with you I was committed 100% financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I was a good wife and a good step Mother to Mikka. I am and will continue to be a mentor to Mikka.

I can never get back the years of support and commitment I gave. I do not regret the time I was with you. I loved you and did the best I could and I can live with that.

I do want to know though when you plan on paying me out. Our agreement was that you would pay me out when you could but by no later than July 1, 2015. I have financial decisions to make based on the expectation of you paying me out.

I think I was extremely fair in our agreement. I am aware I could have chosen to ask for more in many areas. I only want back what I feel is fair and considering I spent a huge amount of my Dads money supporting us and my car was used as our family car our agreement is more than fair. I also took very little from the house ( anything I took was mine before we met.) plus left you with everything in the house.

I am glad that we have been able to be agreeable without the need of lawyers and hope that we can continue to be friendly as we will be connected via Mikka for many years to come.

I look forward to the completion of our agreement. I think three years was a fair and reasonable time. Please let me know what your plans are.

Sincerely

Karma

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