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[Sotto]

Hi Gan - welcome to our time zone! And thanks for your comments (and your comments too RD!) Gan, as you know, I feel uncertain about this - but I have heard from two vets already - Cadet and Starsky - who don't think I should go there right now....bear in mind I still have no idea if OW (or a new OW even?) is on the scene.

Interestingly, even where we're at, D has never been mentioned. I have no idea why. Whether H feels conflicted, or whether he doesn't want to D, and for him to be 'twice D'd) - IDK. I think he had this picture in his mind that we would informally agree things and go our separate ways.

I feel pretty calm this morning. It's always better once I've made a decision. I think it may unsettle H, as I don't think it fits with his vision of how this would be. So there could well be a negative reaction from him. I figure I'll just stay on a calm path and validate if so. I don't take any pleasure in upsetting his apple cart, but I do have a 'bottom line' in terms of how we deal with separating finances.

I'm bookstore GALing today, which is always nice. We have some great customers, and I'm reading some better crime fiction at the moment as you get recommendations from them. I also need to gather some stuff for my L this weekend. I'm hoping we might be in a position to start the 'financials' process off next week - but that may be optimistic, we'll see...