My story

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I am not sure, I am still very new to this whole DB thing. I think I would have acknowledged her, validated her issue and then moved on and ignored her. I think she is frustrated because it is her B-Day and it's the first one in 13 or 14 years that we were not together for it. So she is a little freaked out by it. She has since text me and thanked me for the cards I got her from our two kids, that they were sweet. So I guess she is over it, who knows. Frankly, I think she is just as confused about things as I am. I am doing the 180 and detaching from her, I am not telling her what I am up to unless she asks and I think it's bothering her. From what I see, I think she wants to give it another shot (possibly) but she has a lot of pride and by doing so, she would feel like she needs to explain herself to a lot of people. So it would be easier for her just to continue on this path, which makes her angry at me. Then again, if I knew what she was thinking, we wouldn't be here now.